Relationships don’t finish, they change (R.d.f.t.c.)

2024

R.d.f.t.c. (Relationships don’t finish, they change) — is a video installation addressing first time memories of big feelings that includes 16 shorts :

Death-bo-beath; Unsatisfied; I Got My Cult; Neon Purple Glow; Everything has already happened; Sub Song — into videos, additional material emerged, resulting in the ten accompanying shorts: What’s special about you?; Beautiful New World; Species Family; No presh it’s chill, bummer my bad; The Last Mating Call; Slow Love; Seaweed Dance; It’s You I Like; Nolan & Zander.

The accompanying objects and paintings were made in response to the videos, thinking about tactile childhood memories of drawing with crayon on wooden furniture, and agreeing to believe in magical suggestions like Disney, Santa and safety. 

Written, directed and produced by Kyla Kegler 

Cinematographer: Tristan Gellatly

Music producer / instrumental composition: Derick Evans

Production support: Carl Lee, Lauren Pullano, Lisa Brown Carosa, Christina Buscarino

Performers: Alex Kerr, Bello Bello, Casey Sampson, Charlie Finan, Danny Gray, Devin Finan, Eve Johnstone, Gabriella Victoria, Jarrett Szymanski, Kayleah Aldrich, Lauren Lerner, Lydia Kegler, Meghan Arnold, Nicolee Jimenez, Nolan Barry, Suzanna Vaupen, TD, Ülgen Kılıç, Zach Kushner, Zander Raymond

Song Book designed and printed by Robert Rusch

Remember when you were the baby whale and I was the whale mother

A whole new Beautiful new world

Slow Love

Remember when we were orphans lost in the woods

I feel most powerful riding a horse fast in the forest

Something must go on forever but nothing can go on forever

Remember when you were the baby whale and I was the whale and I was the whale mother

Remember when you told me Santa wasn’t real

Remember when we were orphans lost in the woods with trees

Oversized T shirt tucked into jeans